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Spring Smells and Memories April 8, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound connection between smell and memory, particularly as spring arrives. He discusses how scents can evoke powerful memories and emotions, from childhood experiences to the smells associated with loved ones. The conversation delves into the biological aspects of smell, including pheromones and their role in attraction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own scent memories and the meanings behind them, with callers sharing their personal stories about the scents that have shaped their lives.

Arguments and Understanding January 28, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of arguments and communication in relationships. Joined by guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello, they explore the nature of arguments, the importance of perspective, and how to foster understanding rather than conflict. The conversation delves into personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the need for constructive dialogue and emotional connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own communication styles and the dynamics of their relationships, with a focus on empathy and collaboration. The episode also touches on upcoming programming related to the four horsemen of relationships.

Fear and Trust in Relationships January 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Ben Starr delve into the complex relationship between fear and trust. They explore how fear can serve as both a protective mechanism and a barrier to genuine connection. The discussion touches on personal experiences with trust, the impact of upbringing on perceptions of fear, and the balance between being open and cautious in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with fear and how it shapes their interactions with loved ones. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a healthy middle ground in navigating trust and fear.

Shared Pain and Connection January 14, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Ben Starr, Diane, Giullian Gioiello, Oh Sui, Seth

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of shared pain and its impact on relationships and personal growth. Through discussions with guests, the show delves into how emotional pain can become addictive and how shared experiences of pain can foster deeper connections among individuals. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, cultural differences in expressing grief, and the dynamics of relationships influenced by past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with pain and connection, and how these elements shape their lives.

Exploring Dramatic Situations in Life January 13, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anthony, Beverly, Dennis, Giullian Gioiello, Jeff Kitchen, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages in a thought-provoking discussion about the nature of drama in life, drawing parallels between human experiences and theatrical situations. He explores the complexities of emotions, regrets, and desires, emphasizing how these elements contribute to the drama we create. Through listener interactions, Armand delves into personal stories of estrangement, confusion, and the quest for love, illustrating the universal challenges we face. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding our dramatic situations and finding resolutions, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their emotions and seek healing.

New Year’s Reflections on Relationships December 31, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional complexities surrounding relationships as the year comes to a close. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore themes of love, guilt, and the impact of societal expectations on personal connections. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of why individuals may stay in relationships out of obligation, the significance of New Year’s Eve in reflecting on past relationships, and the struggles of navigating feelings of loneliness and desire for closeness. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own relationship dynamics and the emotional toll they may carry into the new year.

Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne-Marie, Ben Starr, David Travland, Dr. Joe Ledoux, Giullian Gioiello, Hanara, Patricia Miranda, Roger, Steve

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

Understanding Relationships: Medicated vs. Stimulated Types December 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of personality types: medicated and stimulated. He discusses how individuals often seek partners who balance their energy levels, with medicated types gravitating towards stimulating partners and vice versa. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the impact of energy levels on relationships, and the importance of understanding oneself and one’s partner. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship dynamics and the role of energy in their connections.

Exploring Loneliness and Relationships December 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love, loneliness, and relationships, especially during the holiday season. He reflects on the feelings of isolation many experience and the societal pressures to be in a relationship. Through poetry and personal anecdotes, Armand invites listeners to share their experiences and thoughts on being alone or in relationships, emphasizing the importance of connection and understanding. The conversation touches on the dynamics of human relationships, the nature of solitude, and the emotional struggles that accompany them.

Obsessiveness and Love September 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nature of obsessiveness and its connection to love and relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Ben Starr, and Giullian Gioiello, the conversation explores the psychological mechanisms behind obsessive thoughts and behaviors, including the role of the amygdala in processing fear and anxiety. The group shares insights on how emotional evanescence affects our perceptions of past traumas and relationships, and offers practical advice on coping with obsessive feelings, such as engaging in acts of kindness, physical activity, and seeking new experiences to break the cycle of negative thoughts.