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Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life April 8, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dacher Keltner

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Dacher Keltner, author of ‘Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life.’ They explore the concept of a meaningful life through the lens of Eastern philosophy and positive emotions. Dr. Keltner discusses the importance of emotions like compassion, gratitude, and reverence in fostering a sense of community and connection. The conversation delves into how our interactions, including laughter and touch, can bring out the best in others, and how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier relationships in both personal and professional contexts.

Communicating Feelings April 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communicating feelings in relationships. He discusses the challenges people face when trying to express their emotions and the often egocentric nature of communication. Through various callers, Armand highlights the importance of understanding feelings, the need for safety in communication, and the difficulties that arise when feelings are not adequately expressed. He emphasizes that true communication is more about translation than mere words and encourages listeners to embrace their emotions while fostering deeper connections with others.

Waking Up March 26, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of being awake versus being asleep in our daily lives. He discusses how many people drift through their routines, often unaware of their surroundings and the richness of life. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages self-reflection and awareness, prompting listeners to examine their own levels of engagement in relationships and work. He emphasizes the importance of waking up to the present moment and finding joy in even the most mundane tasks, ultimately inviting listeners to take charge of their lives and embrace a more vibrant existence.

Economical Destitution and the Human Mind March 24, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the impact of economic destitution on our mental state, discussing how societal pressures have shifted our perspectives from long-term planning to immediate concerns. He addresses the psychological transition from hyperopia (farsightedness) to myopia (nearsightedness) and the resulting fear and anxiety that many experience. Through listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of living in the present, confronting regrets, and finding joy amidst chaos. He encourages listeners to step up and reclaim their vitality in a world filled with uncertainty.

Menopause and Relationships March 19, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Henry Hess

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Henry Hess to explore the complexities of menopause and its impact on relationships. They discuss the biological changes women experience during menopause, including hormonal shifts that affect mood, sleep, and sexual desire. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding these changes for both partners, emphasizing communication and support. Dr. Hess shares insights on managing menopause symptoms through natural therapies, medical treatments, and lifestyle changes, while also addressing the often-overlooked emotional aspects of this life stage. The episode aims to foster awareness and compassion between partners navigating the challenges of menopause.

Celebrations and the Primitive Self March 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bernie Starr, Claudia Fox, Deborah King, Deidre Middleston Shide, Eric Morgan, Jeremy Spiegel, Lillian Gonzalez

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of celebrations and our connection to the primitive self. He discusses the allure of primitive instincts, such as dance, passion, and the need for connection, contrasting them with modern societal expectations. DeMille delves into the balance between intellect and instinct, emphasizing the importance of emotions and instincts in our lives. He also touches on the impact of hormones on our behaviors and relationships, urging listeners to understand their instincts while navigating modern life. The discussion highlights the duality of human nature, exploring both the Eros and Thanatos instincts, and encourages self-awareness and evolution.

Relationships and Their Challenges March 12, 2009

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romantic relationships, particularly how they evolve over time, especially after having children. He discusses the challenges couples face in maintaining their connection and the importance of understanding one’s own needs. Through anecdotes and listener calls, Armand emphasizes the significance of self-awareness and growth in relationships, urging individuals to prioritize their emotional well-being while navigating the dynamics of love and partnership.

Memory, Love, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves March 5, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of memory and its profound impact on our understanding of love. He discusses how memories can be distorted over time, leading to misconceptions about past experiences and relationships. Through various examples and listener interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing how our memories shape our definitions of love and connection. The episode delves into the psychological aspects of memory recall, emphasizing that our recollections may not always be accurate and can influence our present relationships in unexpected ways.

Claudia Fox on Success March 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Claudia Fox

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Claudia Fox about the multifaceted nature of success and how individuals can define it for themselves. Claudia shares insights from her workshops on personal growth, the importance of self-motivation, and the role of happiness in achieving success. They discuss practical steps to success, including the significance of self-awareness, the value of feedback from others, and the importance of maintaining a positive outlook. Claudia emphasizes that success is not solely about financial gain but also about fulfillment and joy in one’s work and life.

New Year Reflections January 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes the new year with reflections on personal change and growth. He discusses the significance of New Year’s resolutions and the importance of intention in making meaningful changes in one’s personality. Armand encourages listeners to consider what aspects of themselves they would like to improve, whether it’s being less angry, more organized, or more generous. He emphasizes that every change comes with a corresponding loss and challenges listeners to confront their fears and dependencies. Through anecdotes and insights, he inspires a journey of self-discovery and transformation as the year begins.