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Greed and the Human Condition December 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of greed and its impact on human relationships and personal fulfillment. Joined by Dr. Bernard Starr, they discuss how greed can manifest in various forms, from the desire for wealth to the need for love and validation. Through engaging conversations and listener calls, they delve into the motivations behind greed and the importance of recognizing our desires. The episode emphasizes the need for balance in our lives, encouraging listeners to reflect on what truly matters—connection, love, and self-awareness—over material pursuits.

Athletes and Stamina: The Importance of a Flexible Mind October 23, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of mental flexibility and its significance in navigating life’s challenges. He contrasts rigid belief systems with the benefits of a flexible mind, emphasizing how adaptability can enhance personal growth and resilience. Through various examples, including addiction and trauma, he illustrates how inflexible thinking can lead to psychological disorders. Armand encourages listeners to embrace new perspectives and experiences, suggesting that mental agility can transform everyday life into an exciting journey of discovery. The episode also features listener calls, offering insights into personal struggles and the quest for a more adaptable mindset.

Irrationality and Expectations July 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Dan Ariely

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of irrationality with behavioral economist Dr. Dan Ariely, author of ‘Predictably Irrational.’ They explore how expectations shape our experiences, particularly in the context of placebos and the psychology behind pain relief. Ariely shares personal anecdotes from his time in a burn unit and discusses the surprising effects of price and origin on perceived medication efficacy. The conversation delves into the complexities of human behavior, including the fear of abandonment and the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our irrational tendencies.

Abnormality and Normalcy June 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of abnormality and normalcy, particularly in the context of human behavior and societal expectations. He discusses how perceptions of what is ‘normal’ can vary greatly, influenced by cultural norms and individual experiences. The conversation delves into topics such as paraphilias, maladaptivity, and the pressures of conforming to societal standards. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own definitions of normalcy and the impact of secrets and personal struggles on their sense of self. The episode invites callers to share their thoughts and experiences, fostering a dialogue about the complexities of human behavior.

Body Piercing and Tattoos June 18, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the cultural significance of body piercings and tattoos with guest Stephanie Roth, a specialist in adolescent psychology. They explore the rising trend of body modifications, examining statistics on piercings among young adults and the psychological motivations behind them. Roth shares insights on how piercings can serve as a form of self-expression and a way to reclaim lost identity or bodily autonomy. The conversation also touches on the implications of tattoos, impulsivity in decision-making, and the deeper meanings behind these forms of body art.

Denial and Its Many Forms June 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of denial as a psychological defense mechanism. He discusses how denial manifests in various forms, such as denial of fact, responsibility, impact, and awareness. Through examples, he illustrates how denial can hinder personal growth and coping with reality, particularly in the context of addiction and emotional pain. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing denial in oneself and others, and how it can prevent individuals from confronting uncomfortable truths. Armand also touches on the implications of denial in serious situations, such as illness and loss, and the need for awareness and acceptance to foster healing and understanding.

Exploring the Human Mind April 1, 2008

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the human mind, discussing its fragility and the various ways people cope with their mental states. He explores the concept of a ‘positively minded life’ and how individuals often hide their vulnerabilities. Through engaging conversations and listener calls, Armand addresses themes of blame, emotional expression, and the importance of self-awareness in navigating mental challenges. The episode encourages listeners to observe their thoughts and feelings, fostering a deeper understanding of their own mental landscapes.

Eliot Spitzer and the Pressure of Power March 11, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent scandal involving former New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, who allegedly violated the Mann Act by transporting a sex worker across state lines. DeMille explores the psychological pressures faced by politicians and how these pressures can lead to self-destructive behavior. He reflects on the complexities of power, infidelity, and public judgment, encouraging listeners to consider the broader implications of Spitzer’s actions. The conversation also touches on societal attitudes toward infidelity and the media’s role in shaping public perception.

Understanding Love and Neediness March 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the often painful nature of neediness in relationships. He discusses how men and women experience love differently, with men typically feeling a sense of need before securing a partner, while women often feel it afterward. DeMille delves into the idea that love can sometimes feel like an addiction, leading individuals to chase after unavailable partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and avoid the pitfalls of desperation and neediness.

Worry and Fear: Understanding Risk Assessment January 16, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between worry, fear, and risk assessment. He discusses how our primitive brain processes fear and how it can lead to unhealthy behaviors and irrational fears. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between real and perceived risks, particularly in modern society where many fears are influenced by media and personal experiences. He also addresses the impact of fear on decision-making and the importance of learning to manage it effectively for a healthier, more balanced life.