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Communicating Feelings April 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communicating feelings in relationships. He discusses the challenges people face when trying to express their emotions and the often egocentric nature of communication. Through various callers, Armand highlights the importance of understanding feelings, the need for safety in communication, and the difficulties that arise when feelings are not adequately expressed. He emphasizes that true communication is more about translation than mere words and encourages listeners to embrace their emotions while fostering deeper connections with others.

Stress and Strain: Understanding the Nature of Stress March 25, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernie Stahl

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the dual nature of stress, emphasizing its importance in life while also addressing its potential to lead to strain and mental breakdown. Joined by Dr. Bernie Stahl, they explore how stress can be beneficial when managed properly, and the dangers of allowing it to accumulate without proper acknowledgment. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of stress, the importance of feeling and expressing pain, and the concept of resilience in coping with life’s challenges. Listeners are encouraged to confront their stressors and embrace their emotions for better mental health.

Four Steps to Peace of Mind March 11, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr, Dr. Henry Kellerman

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Dr. Bernard Starr hosts Dr. Henry Kellerman to discuss the concept of symptoms and their underlying causes. They explore a four-step approach to achieving peace of mind, which includes identifying blocked wishes, recognizing repressed anger, and understanding the importance of addressing these emotions. The conversation delves into psychoanalysis and its relevance in modern therapy, emphasizing the need for individuals to confront their feelings to alleviate symptoms. The episode also touches on the impact of stereotypes in media, particularly concerning Jewish representation, and highlights the significance of balanced portrayals in film.

New Year Reflections January 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes the new year with reflections on personal change and growth. He discusses the significance of New Year’s resolutions and the importance of intention in making meaningful changes in one’s personality. Armand encourages listeners to consider what aspects of themselves they would like to improve, whether it’s being less angry, more organized, or more generous. He emphasizes that every change comes with a corresponding loss and challenges listeners to confront their fears and dependencies. Through anecdotes and insights, he inspires a journey of self-discovery and transformation as the year begins.

Understanding Why People Leave July 15, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex reasons why individuals may not return to a service or relationship, exploring themes of fear, hidden agendas, and the societal prohibition against leaving. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the three R’s: referrals, repeats, and reputation, which are crucial for building lasting connections. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand highlights how people’s reluctance to express dissatisfaction often stems from a desire to avoid confrontation and protect their own narcissism. This episode aims to provide listeners with tools to foster better communication and improve their personal and professional relationships.

Moods and Their Impact on Life June 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of moods, discussing their nature, differences from emotions, and the impact they have on our lives. He explains how moods can be influenced by various factors, including energy and tension levels, and how they can affect our behavior and interactions. The discussion touches on mood disorders, the importance of understanding our moods, and how people often use different methods to regulate their emotional states. Armand shares anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the significance of recognizing and addressing our moods for a healthier mindset.

Father’s Day Reflections June 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fatherhood and the emotional impact fathers have on their children. With Father’s Day approaching, he discusses the often unresolved feelings many individuals harbor towards their fathers, including anger, disappointment, and longing for connection. Through personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand encourages reflection on the nature of fathering, the importance of understanding one’s feelings, and the potential for healing. The conversation delves into various aspects of father-child relationships, emphasizing the significance of both positive and negative experiences in shaping one’s identity.

Love as an Antidote January 23, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bob, Chris, Jake, Michael Heddo, Rohini Samwaru

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between love and hatred, questioning whether love truly is the antidote to negative emotions. He engages with listeners, including guest Rohini Samwaru, to discuss the nature of love, its significance, and how it intertwines with fear and self-identity. The conversation delves into the emotional struggles people face in relationships and the search for self-understanding through love. Armand challenges conventional views on love, urging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the deeper meanings behind their feelings.

Hatred: An Exploration January 22, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotion of hatred, exploring its roots and implications in our lives. He discusses how hatred differs from anger, emphasizing its deep-seated nature and the impact it has on relationships and self-perception. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages a candid examination of this often-taboo emotion, suggesting that understanding hatred can lead to personal growth and emotional healing. The episode also touches on the interplay between love and hatred, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and addressing these feelings.

Marital Arguments and Health October 2, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of marital arguments on health, particularly focusing on the differences between men and women. He explores the concept of self-silencing, where individuals suppress their feelings during conflicts, and how this can lead to serious health issues, especially for women. The discussion highlights the importance of expressing emotions and the potential dangers of unresolved anger. DeMille emphasizes that while arguments are a natural part of relationships, the way they are handled can significantly affect both emotional well-being and physical health. He encourages listeners to communicate openly and seek therapy if needed.