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Exploring Relationships and Anger April 8, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the role of anger and emotional dependency. He discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and the importance of prioritizing partners over family and friends. The conversation touches on the challenges of merging identities in relationships, the impact of trust issues, and the significance of self-awareness in navigating emotional turmoil. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with anger and intimacy, and how these feelings manifest in their relationships.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind March 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on fear, hatred, and vengeance. They explore how these feelings often originate in childhood and can manifest in various ways throughout life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions rather than denying them, as this can lead to a more positive mindset. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with hatred and to consider how these feelings impact their relationships and sense of self.

Exploring Feelings and Communication February 4, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella, Michael G. Haskins

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the spectrum of human emotions, focusing on five basic feelings: sad, mad, glad, bad, and scared. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these emotions and their impact on communication, particularly in relationships. The conversation includes insights from guests about how different environments and situations can influence emotional responses, such as laughter in uncomfortable situations. The episode also touches on the complexities of positive and negative feelings, exploring how they manifest in everyday life and interactions.

Power Exchange December 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of power exchange in relationships, particularly focusing on dominance and submission. He discusses how individuals often fight for the rights of others while being dominated in their personal lives. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these relationships, the appeal of power dynamics, and the reasons why some individuals prefer to be submissive or dominant. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own preferences and experiences in relationships, with a focus on the complexities of emotional power and control.

Funny Thinking September 17, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘funny thinking’—irrational beliefs that lead to emotional disturbance and unhappiness. He discusses how our thoughts can create stress and affect our spirit, particularly in the context of physical illness and emotional challenges. Armand shares insights from his experiences as a psychotherapist, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the dangers of seeking external validation. He provides a list of common irrational thoughts and encourages listeners to identify their feelings to better understand their emotional states. This episode aims to help individuals recognize and challenge their funny thinking patterns for a more positive mindset.

Anger, Aggression, and Passive Aggression September 11, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of anger, aggression, and passive-aggressive behavior. He discusses how these traits manifest in relationships and society, particularly in the context of political and personal interactions. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in healthy ways, while also addressing the impact of passive-aggressive behavior on relationships. He provides insights into how to confront such behaviors constructively and the significance of trust in fostering meaningful connections. The episode also touches on the themes of fear and suffering, particularly in light of current events.

Exploring the Nature of Change August 13, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Andrew Phillips, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the inevitability of change and the psychological transitions that accompany it. He reflects on the recent changes at WBAI, emphasizing the importance of understanding both the physical act of change and the mental adaptation required. Armand explores the complexities of change, including the stages of denial, anger, bargaining, acceptance, and depression, and how these relate to personal experiences such as relationships and career shifts. He encourages listeners to embrace change with curiosity and to communicate their feelings about transitions. The episode highlights the significance of navigating change positively to foster growth and resilience.

Men and Their Relationships June 12, 2013

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of men’s relationships with themselves, their mothers, and romantic partners. He delves into the societal expectations placed on men, the impact of testosterone on behavior, and the struggles men face in navigating intimacy and vulnerability. The discussion highlights the internal conflicts that arise from traditional masculinity, including the fear of commitment and emotional expression. DeMille encourages listeners to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Games and Life Scripts April 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Claude Steiner

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of games and life scripts, exploring how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and relationships. He is joined by Dr. Claude Steiner, an expert in transactional analysis, who explains how people often repeat negative patterns in their interactions, leading to emotional games like ‘uproar’ and ‘do me something.’ The conversation delves into the importance of recognizing these scripts and the potential for change through awareness and emotional literacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own patterns and consider how they can foster healthier relationships.

Dutiful Personalities and the Enneagram April 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the Enneagram types associated with dutiful personalities, focusing on the perfectionist (type one), the helper (type two), and the loyalist (type six). The conversation explores the characteristics, motivations, and challenges faced by these personality types. The hosts, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, share insights into how these types navigate their sense of duty, obligation, and the inner conflicts that arise from their perfectionistic tendencies, need for approval, and anxiety about security. They also highlight the potential for growth and the positive contributions these types can make to society.