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Arguments and Understanding January 28, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of arguments and communication in relationships. Joined by guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello, they explore the nature of arguments, the importance of perspective, and how to foster understanding rather than conflict. The conversation delves into personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the need for constructive dialogue and emotional connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own communication styles and the dynamics of their relationships, with a focus on empathy and collaboration. The episode also touches on upcoming programming related to the four horsemen of relationships.

Honoring Others and Ourselves December 2, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of honoring others, inspired by a sermon from Joel Osteen. Joined by guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello, they explore the significance of recognition and gratitude in everyday interactions. The conversation delves into the nuances of honoring people, including how to express appreciation genuinely and the challenges that come with it. They also touch on the importance of self-honor and how our actions reflect our values. The episode encourages listeners to think about the small gestures of honor they can incorporate into their lives.

Psychology of Questioning January 14, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of questioning and its significance in communication and relationships. He discusses how people often conceal their true feelings and thoughts from physicians and loved ones, highlighting the challenges that arise from unasked questions. The conversation delves into the reasons behind our reluctance to share personal truths and the importance of asking the right questions to foster understanding and connection. With insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, the episode emphasizes that genuine curiosity and open dialogue can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.

Bringing Ideas and Concepts for a Positively Minded Life November 12, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen

Category: Mind-Body Wellness Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen, a physician and professor at UCSF, about the importance of human connection in medicine. They discuss the need to return to a more compassionate approach to healthcare, emphasizing the significance of listening and understanding patients beyond their physical ailments. Dr. Remen shares insights from her course, ‘The Healer’s Art,’ which aims to remind medical students of the heart of medicine and the values of service, compassion, and authenticity. The conversation highlights the challenges faced by healthcare professionals and the necessity of nurturing their own humanity to better serve others.

Focusing and Listening with Dr. Eugene Gendlin July 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Eugene Gendlin

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Eugene Gendlin, the creator of the Focusing technique, which emphasizes the importance of tuning into bodily sensations to gain deeper insights into our emotions and experiences. Gendlin explains how Focusing allows individuals to connect with their authentic selves by paying attention to the physical sensations in their bodies. The conversation also explores the concept of listening, highlighting the significance of being present and empathetic when others express their feelings. Gendlin shares practical insights on how to navigate emotions and the critic within us, ultimately guiding listeners toward a more positive and self-aware life.

Communication and Understanding April 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Rachel Hatt

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Rachel Hatt delve into the intricacies of communication, exploring how people often fail to convey their true meanings. They discuss the importance of active listening, the pitfalls of assumptions, and the significance of curiosity in understanding others. The conversation highlights techniques such as paraphrasing and asking open-ended questions to foster deeper connections. They also address common communication traps, including the use of ‘why’ and ‘but,’ which can hinder effective dialogue. The episode emphasizes that effective communication is a skill that requires practice and a willingness to engage with others authentically.

Exasperation and Communication September 25, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the themes of exasperation, frustration, and the importance of communication in relationships. He discusses the impact of first words spoken in the morning and the significance of expressing love at the end of conversations. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand emphasizes the need for pauses in life, the value of genuflection, and the challenges of modern communication, particularly with the influence of technology. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their interactions with loved ones and to foster a more positive and understanding approach to communication.

Talking Styles and the Human Voice August 29, 2012

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes voice specialist Elizabeth Sastry to discuss the nuances of talking styles and how they reflect our personalities. They explore various speech patterns, including deferential, dramatic, and worrisome styles, and how these can influence communication and relationships. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding one’s voice and the rhythm of speech, while also touching on the duality of human emotions. Listeners are encouraged to recognize their own speech patterns and consider how they affect their interactions with others.

Tolerance January 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of tolerance, exploring its definitions, implications, and the role it plays in our relationships and society. Joined by guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they delve into how tolerance can be both a personal and societal challenge, emphasizing the importance of understanding and accepting differing opinions and behaviors. The conversation touches on the balance between tolerance and setting boundaries, the impact of upbringing on our capacity for tolerance, and how self-acceptance is crucial for fostering tolerance towards others. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own levels of tolerance and the factors that influence it.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.