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Covert Brutality and Passive-Aggressive Behavior March 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of covert brutality, particularly focusing on passive-aggressive behavior. He explains how this subtle form of abuse can manifest in relationships, often disguised as normal or caring actions. Armand highlights the characteristics of passive-aggressive individuals, including procrastination, forgetfulness, and ambiguity, and how these behaviors can lead to confusion and frustration in interpersonal dynamics. He encourages listeners to recognize these patterns and consider the emotional impact they have on both the passive-aggressive person and those around them.

Power of the Human Mind and Fantasy June 19, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate workings of the human mind, focusing on the concepts of imagination, fantasy, and delusion. He discusses how our thoughts can be influenced by past regrets and future fears, leading us to live in a state of fantasy rather than reality. The episode delves into the role of fantasies in our lives, including sexual fantasies, and how they can serve as a means of escape or empowerment. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between healthy imagination and harmful delusions, providing insights into the psychological mechanisms behind these phenomena.

Father’s Day Reflections June 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fatherhood and the emotional impact fathers have on their children. With Father’s Day approaching, he discusses the often unresolved feelings many individuals harbor towards their fathers, including anger, disappointment, and longing for connection. Through personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand encourages reflection on the nature of fathering, the importance of understanding one’s feelings, and the potential for healing. The conversation delves into various aspects of father-child relationships, emphasizing the significance of both positive and negative experiences in shaping one’s identity.

Finding Balance in Relationships April 1, 2008

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the delicate balance between individuality (‘me’) and togetherness (‘we’) in relationships. He discusses the importance of maintaining one’s identity while fostering a connection with a partner. Through various examples and insights, he highlights how losing oneself in a relationship can lead to feelings of desperation and isolation. The conversation emphasizes the need for autonomy within partnerships and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the dynamics of their relationships. Armand invites callers to share their thoughts and challenges regarding this balance.

Understanding Punishment September 12, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta explore the complex nature of punishment, examining its role in society and individual psychology. They discuss various forms of punishment, from legal consequences to parental discipline, and delve into the motivations behind our need for limits and structure. The conversation highlights the fine line between constructive and destructive punishment, emphasizing how love and attention can be intertwined with punitive measures. Through anecdotes and reflections, they invite listeners to consider the implications of punishment in their own lives and relationships.

Self-Esteem: A Double-Edged Sword May 30, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the complex nature of self-esteem, questioning its perceived benefits and the potential pitfalls of inflated self-worth. They discuss the historical context of self-esteem in therapy, the misconceptions surrounding it, and how it can be both a source of strength and a mask for deeper issues like narcissism. The conversation delves into the impact of self-esteem on mental and physical health, the role of therapists, and the importance of genuine self-awareness over mere validation. They emphasize the need for a nuanced understanding of self-esteem, advocating for a balanced approach in therapy and personal development.

Alpha Leaders April 11, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of alpha leaders, discussing the characteristics that define alpha males and females. They delve into the distinctions between alpha personalities and type A personalities, examining how these traits manifest in both humans and animals. The conversation highlights the roles of alpha individuals in maintaining group cohesion and leadership, as well as the potential psychological impacts of losing one’s territory. The hosts also touch on the complexities of alpha dynamics in relationships and society, providing insights into the nature of leadership and influence.

End Deposit of Mind December 7, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ostracism, drawing parallels between personal experiences and societal behaviors. He reflects on the historical context of ostracism in ancient Greece and its implications in modern society. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores how ostracism affects individuals, particularly in relation to race, gender, and personal identity. DeMille emphasizes the emotional pain caused by exclusion and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings in ourselves and others.

Misogyny and Misandry: Exploring Gender Dynamics September 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex dynamics between men and women, discussing themes of love, lust, and the historical context of misogyny and misandry. He explores the biological and psychological aspects of male and female relationships, questioning societal perceptions and fears surrounding gender. Through engaging anecdotes and definitions, he invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and beliefs regarding gender roles and relationships. The conversation touches on the evolution of women’s roles in society and the challenges men face in adapting to these changes.

Impulses and Their Impact April 12, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the complexities of impulse control, particularly in relation to childhood experiences. They explore how rough childhoods can lead to pathological adaptations, affecting emotional and cognitive development. The hosts discuss various forms of impulse control issues, including stealing, self-mutilation, and eating disorders, emphasizing that neglect and trauma can significantly impact one’s ability to manage impulses. Through engaging metaphors and scientific insights, they illustrate the critical connection between early experiences and later behaviors, aiming to foster understanding and empathy for those struggling with impulse control.