Keyword: absence of pain

Pain and Its Many Forms June 9, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of pain, both physical and emotional, with guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello. They explore various types of pain, including nociceptive, neuropathic, and psychogenic pain, sharing personal experiences and insights. The conversation delves into how emotional pain can often overshadow physical pain and the importance of acknowledging both. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their own experiences with pain, creating a space for understanding and healing. The episode emphasizes the significance of recognizing the connections between our emotional states and physical sensations.

April Fool’s Day and Resilience April 1, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ed Zara

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of humor, pain, and resilience, particularly in the context of April Fool’s Day. He discusses the impact of cognitive dissonance, the importance of trustworthiness in fostering resilience, and the challenges faced by children and adults dealing with trauma. Guest Ed Zara shares insights on helping children recover and build resilience through honest relationships. The conversation delves into the deeper emotional struggles individuals face and the significance of being present and trustworthy in the healing process.

Getting to the Source of Pain August 1, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone explore the importance of understanding the underlying causes of emotional and physical pain. They discuss the concept of masks people wear to hide their true selves and the complexities of seeking authenticity. The conversation delves into various coping mechanisms, the Enneagram personality types, and the challenges of revealing one’s real self. Through listener calls, they address the struggles of dealing with family dynamics and the impact of deception on relationships. The episode emphasizes the necessity of self-awareness and the courage to confront one’s true feelings.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Feeling Good: Understanding the Chemistry of Emotions January 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Elemy, Lauren Sykes, Richard Christensen

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling good, emphasizing that it is a chemical state rather than just a mental one. He discusses how our feelings are influenced by various chemicals released in the brain, such as dopamine and oxytocin, and how activities like exercise, yoga, and even eating can impact our emotional state. Armand encourages listeners to be specific about their feelings and to recognize that feeling good can often be the absence of pain. He invites feedback from listeners on what makes them feel good, setting the stage for future discussions on the chemistry of emotions.

Accessing Your Real Self: What Does It Mean to Be Real November 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alberto, Charles Bavona, Karen, Kelly, Megan, Monroe, Shakara, Teresa

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound question of what it means to be real. Through introspective dialogue and listener call-ins, he discusses how people present either strength or weakness depending on their needs, fears, or survival instincts. Armand connects the idea of authenticity with pain, vulnerability, and presence, arguing that “crazy” behaviors are often adaptations to protect fragile selves. Excerpts from The Velveteen Rabbit and quotes from E.E. Cummings, Judy Garland, and others enrich the philosophical journey. Callers share personal experiences with trauma, depression, overthinking, and strained relationships, revealing how pain, when accepted, can guide people back to their true selves. The episode urges listeners to face discomfort, question disguises, and reclaim their real identities.

Mother’s Day Reflections May 4, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding Mother’s Day, discussing the impact of maternal relationships on mental health. He shares insights from his experience training therapists and highlights the importance of addressing feelings towards mothers, whether they are alive or deceased. Through listener calls, the show delves into personal memories, the challenges of estrangement, and the bittersweet nature of celebrating motherhood. Armand encourages listeners to confront their feelings and engage in meaningful conversations about their relationships with their mothers.

Exploring the Purpose of Depression March 4, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex relationship between depression and creativity, drawing on historical figures like Charles Darwin to illustrate how mental struggles can lead to profound insights. He discusses the evolutionary perspective on depression, suggesting it may serve a purpose in protecting individuals from greater pain. The episode also explores the role of rumination in the creative process and how accepting depression as a normal part of life can lead to personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the potential benefits of their struggles.

Sending Troops to Afghanistan December 1, 2009

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional impact of President Obama’s decision to send additional troops to Afghanistan. He invites listeners to share their feelings about the ongoing conflict and the toll it takes on both soldiers and civilians. The conversation explores themes of disappointment, powerlessness, and the need for honest dialogue about the realities of war. Through various callers, the program highlights personal experiences and reflections on the complexities of military involvement and the longing for peace.

Feelings and Emotions July 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele and neurologist Sherri Siegel explore the complexities of human emotions, focusing on alexithymia, a condition where individuals struggle to identify and express their feelings. They discuss how emotional numbness can develop due to trauma, cultural factors, and the impact of aging on emotional sensitivity. The conversation delves into the physiological aspects of emotions, the interplay between the brain and nervous system, and the challenges individuals face in communicating their feelings. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their emotional experiences and the importance of understanding feelings in relationships.