The Positive Mind

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

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Laziness and Motivation April 7, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychological state of laziness, referred to as ‘abolition,’ characterized by a lack of drive and motivation. He discusses the impact of depression and life transitions, such as graduation and retirement, on one’s motivation. Through various callers, the conversation delves into the struggles of feeling stuck and the importance of finding balance and purpose in life. Armand emphasizes the need for self-advocacy and the power of expressing anger as a means to reconnect with loved ones who may be experiencing lethargy. The episode highlights the significance of taking proactive steps to regain motivation and joy.

Power Exchange December 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of power exchange in relationships, particularly focusing on dominance and submission. He discusses how individuals often fight for the rights of others while being dominated in their personal lives. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these relationships, the appeal of power dynamics, and the reasons why some individuals prefer to be submissive or dominant. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own preferences and experiences in relationships, with a focus on the complexities of emotional power and control.

Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 8, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrew Tatarski, Deborah Hillman, Dr. Harold Urschel, Emily Anthes, Roberta Maria Atzi
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors, linking them to the concept of the ‘refugee syndrome.’ He discusses how feelings of isolation and disconnection can lead individuals to seek artificial dependencies through various forms of addiction, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists, highlighting the psychological roots of addiction and offering hope for those struggling with these issues. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own dependencies and consider the underlying emotional needs that drive them.

Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 7, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrew Tatarski, Deborah Hillman, Dr. Harold Urschel, Emily Anthes, Roberta Maria Atzi
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors. He discusses how feelings of loneliness and disconnection can lead individuals to seek solace in various forms of dependency, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists and examines the psychological roots of addiction, including the ‘refugee syndrome’ and the impact of societal expectations on men’s relationships with addiction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own behaviors and consider the underlying emotional needs that may drive them.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Dutiful Personalities and the Enneagram April 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the Enneagram types associated with dutiful personalities, focusing on the perfectionist (type one), the helper (type two), and the loyalist (type six). The conversation explores the characteristics, motivations, and challenges faced by these personality types. The hosts, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, share insights into how these types navigate their sense of duty, obligation, and the inner conflicts that arise from their perfectionistic tendencies, need for approval, and anxiety about security. They also highlight the potential for growth and the positive contributions these types can make to society.

Powerlessness March 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella explore the concept of powerlessness and its impact on mental health. They discuss how feelings of powerlessness can lead to depression, particularly when combined with self-directed anger. The hosts delve into various aspects of power, including addiction, love, and societal expectations, while emphasizing the importance of recognizing and accepting one’s limitations. Through listener calls, they highlight personal experiences and the struggle to regain control in the face of uncontrollable circumstances. The conversation encourages self-reflection and the pursuit of support from others.

Rebellion September 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Ramey
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of rebellion, discussing its importance in personal growth and development. He reflects on his childhood experiences and the concept of conformity, sharing anecdotes about adolescents’ struggles against authority. Joined by guests Alex and Ramey, they delve into their own experiences with rebellion, the pressures of school and work, and the significance of standing up for oneself. The conversation highlights how rebellion can manifest in various forms and the vital role it plays in shaping identity and independence.

Dependency and Autonomy July 5, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of dependency and autonomy, particularly in the context of relationships and personal development. He explores the characteristics of dependent personalities, the impact of excessive dependency, and the importance of autonomy for emotional health. Joined by guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they delve into the nuances of dependency, its effects on individuals, and how it can manifest in relationships. The conversation touches on the balance between needing support and fostering independence, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and personal growth.

Submissiveness and Power Dynamics June 7, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Lorna Sykes
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of submissiveness and learned helplessness, exploring how these traits manifest in personal relationships and workplace dynamics. He contrasts the roles of ‘servers’ and ‘peacemakers,’ highlighting the psychological impacts of learned helplessness on health and social interactions. The conversation delves into the complexities of power dynamics, both in nature and human relationships, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own power to effect change. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences with submissiveness and how it shapes their lives.