The Positive Mind

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

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Beauty and Its Perceptions April 15, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Deborah Chase, Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex topic of beauty with guests Deborah Chase and Stephanie D’Ambra. They explore historical perspectives on beauty, including the obsession with physical appearance from ancient Greece to modern times. Deborah shares insights from her research on beauty standards and the psychological impacts of body image issues, such as body dysmorphia. The conversation delves into societal expectations, the evolution of beauty ideals, and the importance of self-acceptance. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their perceptions of beauty and the influence of culture and media on self-image.

Undervalued Self April 8, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Elaine Aron
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Elaine Aron, author of ‘The Undervalued Self.’ They explore the concept of self-worth and how individuals often undervalue themselves due to social hierarchies and comparisons. Dr. Aron discusses the importance of recognizing the difference between ranking and linking in relationships, emphasizing that true self-esteem comes from loving connections rather than societal standings. The conversation delves into the psychological impacts of feeling inadequate and the role of attachment in shaping our self-perception. Listeners are encouraged to foster linking relationships to combat feelings of undervaluation.

Exploring Human Connections June 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the intricacies of human interactions and the psychology behind first impressions. He shares insights on how to read people during initial encounters, emphasizing the importance of appearance, attitude, and body language. Through engaging anecdotes and examples, Armand encourages listeners to explore their own perceptions and judgments of others. The episode also features interactive segments where callers share their favorite animals, colors, and bodies of water, revealing deeper aspects of their personalities. This exploration serves as a fun and insightful way to understand oneself and others better.

Symbols and Their Impact on Our Lives April 29, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of symbols and how they shape our perceptions and interactions. He discusses the significance of symbols in our lives, from authority figures to personal relationships, and how they can evoke strong emotions and reactions. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and psychological insights, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the symbols they embody and encounter in their daily lives. The conversation also touches on the importance of understanding oneself and the impact of symbols on our relationships.

Significance and Childhood Fantasies April 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of significance and its impact on our lives, particularly through the lens of childhood fantasies. He discusses how feelings of insignificance can stem from family dynamics and societal expectations, leading to anxiety and a desperate need for recognition. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own childhood dreams and the ways these aspirations connect to their current sense of self-worth. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show highlights the importance of acknowledging our desires for significance and the ways we can find fulfillment in our lives.

Celebrations and the Primitive Self March 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bernie Starr, Claudia Fox, Deborah King, Deidre Middleston Shide, Eric Morgan, Jeremy Spiegel, Lillian Gonzalez
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of celebrations and our connection to the primitive self. He discusses the allure of primitive instincts, such as dance, passion, and the need for connection, contrasting them with modern societal expectations. DeMille delves into the balance between intellect and instinct, emphasizing the importance of emotions and instincts in our lives. He also touches on the impact of hormones on our behaviors and relationships, urging listeners to understand their instincts while navigating modern life. The discussion highlights the duality of human nature, exploring both the Eros and Thanatos instincts, and encourages self-awareness and evolution.

Sadomasochism and the Mind December 30, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ensorara, Sarah
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of mind possession and the psychological dynamics of sadomasochistic relationships. He discusses how individuals may relinquish control of their minds due to peer pressure, rewards, and emotional needs. Through various examples, including the influence of colors and social bonding, Armand delves into the chemical and emotional factors that drive people to seek connection and validation. The conversation also touches on the impact of personal history and the quest for belonging, highlighting the intricate relationship between mind, emotion, and social interaction.

Understanding Color and Perception July 8, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating relationship between color perception and emotional responses. He discusses how colors can evoke different feelings and reactions, influenced by cultural contexts and personal experiences. Through various examples, including the psychological impact of colors like red, gray, and blue, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding our perceptions to navigate our emotional landscapes better. He invites listeners to reflect on their experiences with color and how it shapes their interactions with the world.

Abnormality and Normalcy June 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of abnormality and normalcy, particularly in the context of human behavior and societal expectations. He discusses how perceptions of what is ‘normal’ can vary greatly, influenced by cultural norms and individual experiences. The conversation delves into topics such as paraphilias, maladaptivity, and the pressures of conforming to societal standards. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own definitions of normalcy and the impact of secrets and personal struggles on their sense of self. The episode invites callers to share their thoughts and experiences, fostering a dialogue about the complexities of human behavior.

Power of the Human Mind and Fantasy June 19, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate workings of the human mind, focusing on the concepts of imagination, fantasy, and delusion. He discusses how our thoughts can be influenced by past regrets and future fears, leading us to live in a state of fantasy rather than reality. The episode delves into the role of fantasies in our lives, including sexual fantasies, and how they can serve as a means of escape or empowerment. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between healthy imagination and harmful delusions, providing insights into the psychological mechanisms behind these phenomena.