Category: Personal Growth and Identity

Spring Smells and Memories April 8, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound connection between smell and memory, particularly as spring arrives. He discusses how scents can evoke powerful memories and emotions, from childhood experiences to the smells associated with loved ones. The conversation delves into the biological aspects of smell, including pheromones and their role in attraction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own scent memories and the meanings behind them, with callers sharing their personal stories about the scents that have shaped their lives.

Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

How We Present Ourselves December 1, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-presentation and interpersonal relationships with guests Giullian Gioiello, Ben Starr, Elizabeth, Rina, and Anna. The discussion delves into how individuals project their identities, the roles they assume in different contexts, and the underlying needs that drive these presentations. The guests share personal insights on the balance between vulnerability and strength, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-image. As they navigate through themes of acceptance and the masks we wear, the conversation reveals the intricate dance of human connection.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Soccer’s Impact on American Culture July 15, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent surge of interest in soccer in the United States, particularly during the World Cup. He explores the psychological factors that draw people to sports, including the need for status, affiliation, and meaning. With insights from co-host Giullian Gioiello, they examine how social media has influenced fan engagement and the emotional connections fans develop with teams. The conversation also touches on the darker aspects of fandom, including the potential for violence and the psychological impact of losses on fans. This episode delves into the complex relationship between sports, identity, and community.

Rejection September 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of rejection and its impact on our lives. He explores how rejection is often perceived as a negative experience, leading to feelings of worthlessness and disappointment. However, he argues that rejection is not an emotion but a perception of someone’s behavior. DeMille encourages listeners to examine their feelings and reactions to rejection, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and understanding. He also delves into the roots of creativity and how it can be stifled by societal expectations, urging listeners to embrace their creative spirit as a means of personal growth and fulfillment.

Interview with Marilyn Ferguson December 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Marilyn Ferguson

In this episode, Armand DiMele revisits a heartfelt interview with the late Marilyn Ferguson, author of ‘The Aquarian Conspiracy.’ They discuss the challenges of nurturing individuality in a conformist society and the importance of integrating thinking, feeling, and spirituality. Ferguson shares insights on the characteristics of visionaries, the significance of attention, and the dangers of seeking validation. The conversation delves into the role of creativity and the artist’s journey, emphasizing the need for self-acceptance and the courage to embrace one’s unique path. This archival interview offers timeless wisdom for those seeking to understand their true selves.

Superstition and Luck January 11, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of superstition and luck, exploring their impact on our lives and beliefs. He shares personal anecdotes and insights from guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla, about how superstitions shape our perceptions and behaviors. The conversation delves into the origins of superstitions, the psychological aspects of magical thinking, and the importance of understanding our beliefs. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own superstitions and how they influence their lives, ultimately seeking a balance between belief and reality.

Accessing Your Real Self: What Does It Mean to Be Real November 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alberto, Charles Bavona, Karen, Kelly, Megan, Monroe, Shakara, Teresa

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound question of what it means to be real. Through introspective dialogue and listener call-ins, he discusses how people present either strength or weakness depending on their needs, fears, or survival instincts. Armand connects the idea of authenticity with pain, vulnerability, and presence, arguing that “crazy” behaviors are often adaptations to protect fragile selves. Excerpts from The Velveteen Rabbit and quotes from E.E. Cummings, Judy Garland, and others enrich the philosophical journey. Callers share personal experiences with trauma, depression, overthinking, and strained relationships, revealing how pain, when accepted, can guide people back to their true selves. The episode urges listeners to face discomfort, question disguises, and reclaim their real identities.

Jealousy and Possessiveness September 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. He discusses how introspection can help individuals understand their feelings and reactions, particularly in the context of romantic relationships. The conversation touches on childhood behaviors, societal expectations, and the impact of technology on possessiveness. Armand and his guest, Stephanie D’Ambra, delve into the nuances of these emotions, questioning whether a certain level of jealousy is natural or harmful. They also examine how possessiveness can manifest differently in men and women, and the cultural implications of these feelings.