Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

Sexuality and Human Evolution June 4, 2013

In this special two-hour episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of human sexuality alongside guest Roberta Maria Ati. They discuss various theories regarding female orgasm, including the poleaxe theory, upsuck theory, and cuddle theory, and how these relate to human reproductive behavior. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the differences in sexual behavior between genders, and the societal implications of these evolutionary traits. The episode aims to shed light on the intricate relationship between sexuality, reproduction, and human evolution.

Daphne Rose Kingma on the Power of Love and Relationships December 19, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Daphne Rose Kingma

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with author Daphne Rose Kingma about the complexities of love and relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional journeys of men and women. They explore themes of separation, vulnerability, and the emotional pain that men often avoid. Kingma emphasizes the importance of understanding the emotional realm of men and how women can support them in their emotional growth. The conversation delves into the dynamics of masculinity and femininity, highlighting the need for both men and women to embrace their vulnerabilities and connect on a deeper emotional level.

Interpreting Dreams and Human Relationships March 14, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of sexuality and familial connections. He discusses how early experiences with parents can shape adult behavior, especially in romantic contexts. The conversation delves into the motivations behind sexual encounters, the search for nurturing figures, and the impact of trauma on intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the deeper meanings behind their relationships and desires.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.

Romance and Relationships September 14, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romance, focusing on the concepts of womanizers and manizers. He delves into the psychological aspects of sexual addiction, narcissism, and the motivations behind serial relationships. Through discussions on philanderers, erotomania, and persistent sexual arousal syndrome, Armand provides insights into why some individuals seek multiple partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs and the impact of familial relationships on adult behavior. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and relationships, fostering a deeper understanding of love and connection.

Sexuality and Relationships with Dr. Judy Kuriansky January 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Judy Kuriansky, Stephanie D'Ambra

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a lively discussion with Dr. Judy Kuriansky, a seasoned sex therapist and author. They explore various aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of communication, acceptance, and emotional expression. Dr. Kuriansky shares insights from her extensive experience, including techniques for enhancing intimacy and addressing sexual apathy. The conversation also touches on the significance of understanding one’s own needs and the balance between togetherness and independence in relationships.

Origin of Emotions November 30, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Acci

In this episode, Armand Dimele and guest Roberta Maria Acci explore the origins of human emotions, tracing their development back to lush environments where early hominids thrived. They discuss how emotions evolved to facilitate survival and reproduction, particularly through the dynamics of mating and selection. The conversation delves into the transition from instinctual behaviors to the complexities of language, highlighting how the emergence of speech altered emotional expression and social structures. The hosts emphasize the importance of creativity, dance, and music in early human interactions, suggesting that these forms of expression were crucial for emotional connection and mate selection.