Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.

Motherhood, Raising Children and Struggling with Depression Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tracy Thompson

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the often-overlooked issue of maternal depression with author Tracy Thompson. They explore the complexities of motherhood and the emotional toll it can take on women, highlighting the difference between postpartum depression and ongoing maternal depression. Tracy shares insights from her book, ‘The Ghost in the House,’ which delves into the struggles mothers face and the societal pressures that contribute to their mental health challenges. The conversation emphasizes the importance of support systems, open communication, and understanding within families to help mothers cope with their experiences.

Walking 2.2 Miles in 102 Degree Weather Undated

In this episode, Armand DiMele shares a memorable experience from a conference at Princeton University where he was tasked with getting 2,000 attendees to walk 2.2 miles in scorching heat. He discusses the importance of childhood needs in adult relationships and introduces his guest, Portia Franklin, a psychotherapist specializing in psychomotor therapy. Together, they explore the five basic childhood needs: place, support, nurturance, protection, and loving limits, and how unmet needs can manifest in adult life. The conversation delves into the significance of emotional movement and the role of ideal parents in healing past wounds.

Attunement and Validation in Therapy Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kevin Heaney

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with psychotherapist Kevin Heaney about the concepts of attunement and validation in therapy and personal relationships. They discuss how these principles can bridge the emotional disconnect that many individuals experience, emphasizing the importance of being truly heard and understood. Heaney shares insights on the role of family dynamics in therapy, particularly in the context of alcoholism and substance abuse, and how the identified patient often reflects deeper family issues. The conversation highlights the necessity of both individual and family involvement in the healing process.