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Navigating Relationships and Mental Health June 3, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships, particularly in the context of mental health and addiction. He explores the impact of parental relationships on children’s emotional development, the effects of frequent relocations on youth, and the challenges posed by depression within families. DeMille emphasizes the importance of communication and connection in relationships, especially when dealing with issues like addiction and mental health. He also highlights the need for parents to model healthy relationships for their children. The episode includes listener calls that delve into personal experiences and insights on these topics.

Understanding Attachment Styles March 26, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Iris Reiner

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes Dr. Iris Reiner, a psychologist and researcher from Germany, to discuss the complexities of love and attachment styles. They explore the three major attachment styles: secure, dismissing, and preoccupied, and how these styles affect relationships. Dr. Reiner shares insights from her research on how genetics and parenting influence attachment behaviors. The conversation delves into the implications of these styles on emotional health and relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself and others in fostering secure connections.

Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews author Sandra Reischus about her book, ‘Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father.’ They explore the unconscious patterns that lead individuals to replicate parental relationships in their romantic lives. Sandra discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices, often resulting in partners who mirror parental figures. The conversation delves into the complexities of these dynamics, the importance of self-awareness, and the potential for growth through therapy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these patterns and seek healthier relationship dynamics.

Resiliency and Mental Health May 2, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kevin O'Donoghue

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of resiliency and why some individuals bounce back from trauma while others struggle. He discusses various factors influencing resilience, including genetics, upbringing, and mental health. Through listener calls, he delves into personal experiences of sensitivity, emotional responses, and the impact of familial relationships on resilience. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s emotional responses and the role of supportive relationships in overcoming adversity.

Understanding Systems Theory March 23, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of systems theory, emphasizing the importance of viewing individuals within the context of their family systems. He discusses how behaviors, such as a child’s depression or acting out, often reflect the dynamics of the entire family rather than just the individual. Through various examples, including the impact of parental depression on children and the roles individuals play within family systems, Armand illustrates how understanding these relationships can lead to healing. He also touches on the implications of medication like Ritalin and the need for a holistic approach to treatment.

Childhood Sexual Abuse and Its Impact December 1, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Christine Courtois

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the sensitive and challenging topic of childhood sexual abuse with counseling psychologist Dr. Christine Courtois. They explore the complexities of incest, the definition of consent, and the long-term effects of such trauma on survivors. Dr. Courtois shares insights from her research and clinical experience, highlighting the psychological and physical repercussions of abuse, as well as the importance of addressing both victims and offenders in treatment. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, prevention, and support for those affected by these issues.

Sibling Rivalry November 3, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of sibling rivalry, a common issue in families that can lead to long-lasting psychological effects. He discusses the roots of competition among siblings, drawing parallels with nature and highlighting how competition for limited resources, such as parental attention and love, can manifest in hostility. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand delves into how sibling rivalry can develop into deeper issues, affecting relationships well into adulthood. He also offers insights on how parents can better manage these dynamics to foster healthier sibling relationships.

Understanding Parental Depression and Its Impact on Children Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the significant link between parental depression and children’s emotional well-being. He highlights recent research indicating that children of depressed parents are more likely to experience anxiety and behavioral issues. The conversation explores how parental conflict, whether through anger or withdrawal, affects children and emphasizes the importance of addressing parental mental health to improve outcomes for children. DeMille encourages parents to seek help for their depression, suggesting that treating the parent can lead to improvements in the child’s behavior and emotional state.

Consistency in Parenting and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of consistency in parenting and personal relationships. He discusses a study by Israeli researchers that reveals how consistent parenting can lead to effective behavior in children, but may also foster resentment. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal experiences, examining how past relationships with parents can influence adult romantic choices. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating emotional connections, the impact of inconsistency, and the importance of understanding one’s own needs in relationships.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.