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Understanding Personality Types in Crisis Situations December 20, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various personality types and their reactions during crises. He discusses obsessive-compulsive behaviors, sociopathic tendencies, and the impact of personality disorders on decision-making in stressful situations. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding emotions and feelings during challenging times, urging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and reactions. Through engaging conversations with callers, he highlights the significance of empathy and support for those affected by crises, encouraging a compassionate approach to understanding human behavior.

How to Handle Anger from Others Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses strategies for dealing with irrational anger from loved ones or colleagues. He explores the various reasons behind anger, including chronic anger and passive-aggressive behavior, and emphasizes the importance of not reacting with anger in return. DeMille provides practical tools for disarming anger, such as acknowledging the other person’s feelings, using vulnerability, and even crying as a response. He highlights the significance of understanding the underlying fears behind anger and the need for tenderness in resolving conflicts. The episode aims to equip listeners with the knowledge to navigate challenging interpersonal dynamics effectively.

Arguments and Nonviolent Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tom Bond

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of arguments and conflicts. He shares insights from his friend Richard on evaluating the motivations behind conversations and the importance of recognizing when discussions are unproductive. Joined by Tom Bond, a representative of nonviolent communication, they explore how to navigate difficult conversations, the significance of empathy, and the need to focus on feelings and needs rather than judgments. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and connection in communication.

Working With You Is Killing Me Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine Crowley, Kathy Elster

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes authors Kathy Elster and Catherine Crowley to discuss their book, ‘Working With You Is Killing Me.’ They explore the complexities of workplace dynamics, including how personal issues can manifest in professional settings. The conversation delves into the concept of being ‘hooked’ by difficult colleagues and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in workplace conflicts. Elster and Crowley provide insights on managing emotions, setting boundaries, and the psychological patterns that influence workplace relationships. This episode offers valuable strategies for navigating the challenges of working with others.

People Who Make Mountains Out of Molehills Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological phenomenon of catastrophizing, where individuals exaggerate small issues into significant worries, and contrasts it with trivialization, where concerns are downplayed. Through various examples, he explores how different personalities react to stressors, from the anxious catastrophizers to the calm trivializers. The conversation delves into the dynamics of relationships, particularly how communication styles can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing these behaviors in ourselves and others to foster better communication and emotional understanding.

Irritability and Emotional Reactions Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nature of irritability and its roots in past experiences rather than present circumstances. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings in ourselves and others, particularly in relationships. Through listener calls, he explores various emotional responses to external events, such as storms and media coverage, while encouraging compassion and connection. The conversation highlights how irritability often masks deeper emotions and the need for love and support during challenging times.

Spring and Managing Anger in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of dealing with anger from loved ones, coworkers, and friends. He explores various scenarios where individuals may express anger unjustly and offers practical strategies to navigate these situations. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying emotions behind anger and provides tools for responding effectively, such as not reacting with anger, expressing vulnerability, and using specific phrases to disarm confrontations. The episode aims to equip listeners with insights and techniques to foster better relationships and manage conflict more effectively.