The Positive Mind

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

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Lying and Deception April 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of lying and deception, discussing various motivations behind why people lie, such as self-esteem protection, conflict avoidance, and impression management. He examines cultural differences in perceptions of lying, the impact of individualism versus collectivism, and how personality traits influence reactions to dishonesty. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the nuances of truth and deception, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with honesty and the societal implications of lying.

Loyalty December 19, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of loyalty, discussing its implications in personal relationships, politics, and society. He reflects on how loyalty can shift over time, influenced by personal experiences and societal expectations. Through anecdotes and philosophical insights, he encourages listeners to examine their own loyalties—whether to family, friends, or country—and what those loyalties truly mean. The conversation also touches on the impact of loyalty in business and the importance of standing by others during difficult times.

Helping You Lead a More Positively Minded Life November 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of remorse and regret, discussing their impact on our lives and relationships. He delves into the psychology of psychopathy, highlighting the differences between remorse and regret, and how they shape our emotional experiences. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages self-reflection on past choices and the importance of understanding our emotions. The show emphasizes the value of learning from regrets while also promoting a positive mindset for the future.

Ghosts in Our Lives August 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘ghosts’—the memories and past relationships that linger in our lives. He discusses how these ghosts can manifest as feelings of regret, longing, or even anger, and how they affect our current relationships. Armand delves into the psychological implications of holding onto these memories and the emotional turmoil they can cause. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own ghosts and consider whether they want to keep them or let them go. The show invites personal stories and insights about the ghosts that haunt us.

Kindness August 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound concept of kindness, discussing its significance in human relationships and society. He delves into the attributes that contribute to a well-balanced individual, including wisdom, courage, humanity, and justice. Armand emphasizes the importance of being connected to others and how acts of kindness can foster community and belonging. He reflects on personal experiences and the challenges that prevent kindness, such as fear, jealousy, and greed. Throughout the discussion, he encourages listeners to recognize opportunities for kindness in their daily lives and to cultivate a more compassionate world.

Reputation July 26, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of reputation and its impact on our lives. He discusses how our names and identities are perceived in the digital age, the importance of reputation in social dynamics, and the ways it can shape our interactions. Through anecdotes and listener calls, Armand delves into the complexities of reputation, including the pressures to conform and the potential for personal betrayal. He emphasizes the need for self-awareness and authenticity in navigating the often superficial judgments of society.

Secrets June 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of secrets and their impact on mental health. He highlights the importance of revealing secrets to alleviate emotional burdens, sharing insights from psychology and personal stories. The conversation touches on how secrets can affect relationships and individual well-being, particularly in the context of trauma and personal experiences. Armand encourages listeners to call in and share their secrets, emphasizing the healing power of openness and honesty.

Doubting People January 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of doubters—individuals who live with suspicion and fear of losing everything. He discusses how childhood experiences shape their skepticism and the impact of lacking trust in themselves and others. DeMille highlights the paradox of doubters seeking security while simultaneously fearing intimacy and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and gently supporting these individuals, as they often yearn for connection but are terrified of being overwhelmed. The episode delves into the complexities of doubt, trust, and the human experience.

Dealing with Narcissism in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges of dealing with narcissistic personalities in relationships. Joined by Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist,’ they explore the characteristics of narcissists, including self-absorption, entitlement, and emotional detachment. The conversation delves into the dynamics between narcissists and their partners, offering insights on how to navigate these complex relationships. Wendy emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and provides strategies for setting healthy boundaries while fostering empathy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize the signs of narcissism and learn how to respond effectively.