The Positive Mind

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

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Truth Telling and Its Complexities April 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of truth-telling and the human tendency to deceive. He discusses how our self-esteem and feelings of powerlessness can lead to dishonesty, and how societal norms often dictate our relationship with truth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he delves into the consequences of seeking honesty in relationships and the challenges faced when confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our motivations for truth and deception, and how these dynamics play out in personal relationships.

Masks We Wear When Wounded April 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow, Claudia Fox, Diane, Matilda, Susie
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of vulnerability and the masks we wear to hide our wounds. He discusses how individuals often project strength and confidence, especially during job searches or family gatherings, despite feeling hurt inside. Through anecdotes and a poignant poem, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the emotional toll of pretending to be okay. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and the burden of maintaining a facade, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves and seek genuine connections. The episode serves as a reminder that vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.

What a Day Today January 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent inauguration speech and the emotions it stirred. Joined by Dr. Bernard Starr, they analyze the implications of political speeches, the nature of gullibility, and the historical context of societal scams. They explore how emotions like fear, greed, and loneliness can lead to vulnerability, making individuals susceptible to deception. The conversation delves into the importance of awareness and critical thinking in navigating the complexities of trust in institutions and the impact of social pressures on decision-making.

Understanding Deceit and Trust December 23, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of deceit and trust in human relationships, using the case of Bernie Madoff as a springboard for discussion. He delves into the psychology behind why people may choose to trust others, even in the face of potential deceit. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and research findings, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with trust and deception. He poses thought-provoking questions about the nature of belief and the societal implications of deceit, inviting audience participation to share their insights.

What is Real? October 21, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kevin, Stephanie D'Ambra, Tony, Yasmeen
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of reality and how it is perceived differently by individuals. Drawing on themes from literature, particularly ‘The Velveteen Rabbit,’ he discusses the importance of authenticity in our lives and relationships. The conversation delves into the effects of medication on perception, the struggle for self-trust, and the complexities of human emotions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own realities and the significance of asking questions about their experiences. The episode features engaging discussions with callers who share their personal insights and challenges.

Understanding Why People Leave July 15, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex reasons why individuals may not return to a service or relationship, exploring themes of fear, hidden agendas, and the societal prohibition against leaving. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the three R’s: referrals, repeats, and reputation, which are crucial for building lasting connections. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand highlights how people’s reluctance to express dissatisfaction often stems from a desire to avoid confrontation and protect their own narcissism. This episode aims to provide listeners with tools to foster better communication and improve their personal and professional relationships.

Morality and Judgment March 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of morality and judgment, drawing on psychological theories from Freud and Eric Berne. He discusses the id, ego, and superego, and how these concepts influence our understanding of right and wrong. The conversation delves into moral dilemmas, societal judgments, and the impact of neuroscience on our ethical decisions. Through various examples, including controversial topics like war and personal relationships, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own moral beliefs and the influences that shape them.

Noble Self and Positive Intentions December 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Stephanie Roth about the concept of the ‘noble self’—the inner hero within each individual. They explore how focusing on positive intentions behind seemingly dysfunctional behaviors can lead to personal growth and understanding. Roth emphasizes the importance of uncovering the noble self in various situations, including overspending, addiction, and even infidelity, by recognizing the underlying motivations and desires that drive these actions. The conversation encourages listeners to approach their challenges with compassion and a focus on wellness rather than judgment.

Stealing and Deception August 23, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of stealing and deception, examining their prevalence in human behavior and nature. He discusses how deception is a natural part of life, drawing parallels between animal behavior and human actions. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights the moral dilemmas surrounding theft, whether it’s taking physical items or emotional connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with stealing and the motivations behind such actions, ultimately fostering a deeper understanding of human nature.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.