Category: Emotional and Mental Health

Fear and Trust in Relationships January 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Ben Starr delve into the complex relationship between fear and trust. They explore how fear can serve as both a protective mechanism and a barrier to genuine connection. The discussion touches on personal experiences with trust, the impact of upbringing on perceptions of fear, and the balance between being open and cautious in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with fear and how it shapes their interactions with loved ones. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a healthy middle ground in navigating trust and fear.

Obsessiveness and Love September 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nature of obsessiveness and its connection to love and relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Ben Starr, and Giullian Gioiello, the conversation explores the psychological mechanisms behind obsessive thoughts and behaviors, including the role of the amygdala in processing fear and anxiety. The group shares insights on how emotional evanescence affects our perceptions of past traumas and relationships, and offers practical advice on coping with obsessive feelings, such as engaging in acts of kindness, physical activity, and seeking new experiences to break the cycle of negative thoughts.

Understanding Adolescence and Risk-Taking July 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Giullian Gioiello and Lisa Arnone, explores the complexities of adolescence and the psychology behind risk-taking behaviors. They discuss how early humans evolved as risk seekers and the role of endorphins in motivating such behaviors. The conversation delves into the neurological development of adolescents, particularly the imbalance between the amygdala and the prefrontal cortex, which leads to heightened risk-taking during this life stage. The hosts also touch on modern examples of adolescent risk-taking and the implications for mental health and decision-making.

Emotions and Fear January 29, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexity of emotions, focusing on fear as a primary feeling that many struggle with. He discusses how anxiety can lead to a sense of danger and the desire for security, often resulting in avoidance behaviors. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and processing these feelings rather than suppressing them. Through listener interactions, he highlights the commonality of these experiences and encourages individuals to confront their fears and seek understanding. The conversation delves into the interplay between personal history and emotional responses, aiming to empower listeners to lead a more positively minded life.

Fears and Advice November 6, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fear and the often unsolicited advice people give. He engages with callers about their personal fears, ranging from phobias to deeper psychological issues rooted in childhood experiences. The discussion also delves into the dynamics of family relationships, particularly the challenges of dealing with overbearing advice from parents and loved ones. Through heartfelt conversations, listeners reflect on their own fears and the impact of advice on their lives, revealing the intricate connections between fear, love, and personal growth.

Performance Anxiety and Public Speaking June 26, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Natalie H. Rogers

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Natalie H. Rogers about overcoming performance anxiety and the importance of effective public speaking. Natalie, a licensed clinical social worker and author of ‘The New Talk Power,’ shares insights on techniques to manage anxiety, including proper breathing, body awareness, and the significance of structure in communication. They discuss how performance anxiety can affect individuals in various situations, from job interviews to public presentations, and provide practical tips for building confidence in speaking. The conversation emphasizes the need for training and practice to develop effective communication skills.

Fighting Your Fears of Success June 18, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Don Green

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges of overcoming fears of success with sports psychologist Dr. Don Green. They explore how fear can immobilize individuals, preventing them from reaching their full potential in various areas, including business, sports, and performing arts. Dr. Green shares insights from his book, ‘Fight Your Fear and Win,’ highlighting seven essential skills for performing under pressure. These skills include determination, energy management, perspective, courage, focus, poise, and resilience. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing fears to achieve personal and professional success.

A Nation of Wimps May 15, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Hara Estroff Marano

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of invasive parenting on children’s mental health with guest Hara Estroff Marano, author of ‘A Nation of Wimps.’ They explore how overprotective parenting leads to increased anxiety, depression, and a lack of coping skills in children. Marano highlights the importance of allowing children to experience failure and learn from it, emphasizing that play is essential for brain development. The conversation delves into societal pressures on parents and the consequences of prioritizing achievement over emotional well-being, ultimately questioning how to foster independence in the next generation.

Anxiety: Friend or Foe March 26, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Sarah Denning

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of anxiety with Dr. Sarah Denning, founder of Adaptive Behavioral Therapy. They explore the nature of anxiety, its mechanisms, and how it can serve both as a motivator and a hindrance. Dr. Denning introduces her Anxiety Notebook Series, emphasizing the importance of identifying anxiety levels and understanding their origins. The conversation covers practical strategies for managing anxiety, including recognizing physical symptoms, the role of movement, and the significance of resensitizing oneself to lower levels of stress. Listeners are encouraged to engage with their anxiety constructively and learn to navigate its challenges.

Anxiety, Excitement, and Fear March 20, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of anxiety, excitement, and fear, particularly focusing on phobias. He discusses the concept of secondary gain associated with phobias, explaining how they can serve as a means of avoiding responsibilities. The episode delves into various types of phobias, including agoraphobia and simple phobias, and highlights the psychological mechanisms behind them. Armand also touches on obsessive-compulsive disorders and post-traumatic stress disorder, emphasizing the importance of understanding these conditions to lead a healthier life. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how anxiety disorders manifest and can be addressed.